Sex toys for her: what works… and what doesn’t
Everyone likes sex, period. It really doesn’t take reading this blog to figure that out. However, being in a relationship means having sex with one person for a long time, possibly a lifetime. While being committed is beautiful on many levels, it is also burdensome for your sex life, as it makes it go into a rut. This is nothing to worry about, as there are many ways to improve and enhance your sex life. Among the methods, it’s pretty much a safe bet to presume that sex toys are the most popular, especially those made for her. Men love to watch and women like to play, so suffice to say that a well-picked toy will greatly enhance your pleasure if you are in a steady relationship. And even if you’re not, getting a toy or two for your current girlfriend will perhaps reveal some new preferences you didn’t even know you had.
However, this article isn’t just about how sex toys are great. Nominally yes, but guys also tend to get carried away when buying toys for their women. Read on and we will point to some do’s and don’ts of sex toys, so you never make a mistake.
Buying a small, pocket vibrator or a vibrating ring is great and tons of fun – buying a large dildo might not be. There is a good reason for this; girls love to play, so a tiny pocket vibrator will definitely be something to toy with, but a dildo larger than you penis could cause trouble. What if she finds it more pleasurable than you, especially if you’re not that well-endowed? Truth is, unless you have a massive package, avoid this, it will leave you scarred.
Another important thing to bear in mind is that, even though vibrators are fun, you should not let her use them too much, or she might get used to getting off on them, making it more difficult for you to arouse her. This is particularly relevant for long, steady relationships, in which the female is likely a bit ‘tired’ of the male, so to speak.
The best way to handle this situation is to buy a vibrating ring, or a different toy that should be used by both of you. This way she will associate the pleasure with you and you will be safe in that area. A much better idea, in case your woman has an open mind, is to purchase products for anal pleasure. Butt plugs and anal beads are exceptional toys, ones that will also work great for you because you should be the one inserting them… another part being that they will get your woman used to having stuff inserted in her anus. Even if you have frequent anal sex, anal beads are very entertaining, but in case you don’t, butt plugs and them are a must-have. Combined with some fine lubricant and a bit of massaging in the front, they will give your woman great orgasms.