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How to Have Sex without Intercourse

There are so many ways to show affection to your partner and most of these are essential parts of lovemaking such as touching, cuddling, and of course, kissing. You can never have a better word to say if you do these actions especially on the right time. Even if you do not say the words “I love you” you can still show how you really feel by showing intimacy. At the same time, it can also be a way to start a sexual activity. There are even some couples who easily get aroused just by kissing, touching, and caressing. This is their form of teasing that would lead to foreplay and sex eventually. Below are some of the ways that you can make love without doing the actual intercourse. And yes guys, this is actually possible.

Have an extended foreplay

Making love with extended foreplay will end up in the actual love making sooner or later. However, if you are already too intimate with your partner, the extended foreplay can be on a whole new level in your relationship. This does not just mean that the foreplay will be the only thing that would let you have sex. This also means that you already know how to satisfy your partner’s sexual appetite. Moreover, you will also easily know if he/she has a sexual interest. Therefore, you can immediately do some action to help you both become mutually and sexually attuned. And by the time that you reach the moment when you would already have intercourse, the experience will be more intimate as well as meaningful.

The more varied you are, the better you can cope with your partner’s sexual appetite and needs. However, many oppose to the idea of intimacy without intercourse since they think that a relationship should always have sexual contact between man’s penis and the woman’s vagina.

Sharing secrets and private languages

Couples who are together for a long time already feel like that they can communicate even without talking. It is as if they could talk telepathically and they can immediately understand how the other is feeling or what their partner is thinking. Sharing secrets between one another would help you create a world of your own. While in the club or even doing the grocery together, you can tell your man about the lingerie you are wearing right now. Or you can also touch some parts of your man’s body that would ignite his senses but do this as if you don’t mean it. And would you believe that there are even some couples who just look at each other and still get that sexual impact as well.

There are also some who speak their private language at the same time. They use this private language to express how they really feel, such as arousal, even if they are in front of other people. This gives them more excitement and heightens up the anticipation for sex even more. Couples who do this technique are less likely to argue because of jealousy. They don’t need to flirt with other people while in public because they are already doing it together. The opposite sex may no longer be threatening since the couple is very much comfortable about the feelings of each other and their relationship is more valuable compared to a quickie that other people can offer.

If you think that this is impossible or you can’t seem to have this in your relationship, try doing some of these tips. The time spent in your relationship can sometimes make feelings dull. Therefore, it is essential that you try to go back to the days that you are still courting your wife or girlfriend. Take time to show her that you love her in more creative ways. Giving presents out of the blue can be very romantic. You don’t have to spend hundreds of dollars every time you do. As long as you tell how special she is to you, then it will work. Give your partner a phone call while he is at work just to tell him that you love him. Leave some post-it with different romantic notes and put it in places where he could easily see. Please your partner like you did when you were still teenagers. It will ignite a different sense of intimacy and at the same time you would realize how important they are to you.

You must always keep this romance up even if you are already in the relationship for a decade or more. There are times that people tend to use less creativity and feel lazy to do these little simple things. Eventually they start to forget how it feels to be in love again just like the way they did during the first few months of dating. But it’s never too late to be young again. It would only take a few works before you can start perfecting this craft again. Expect a better and happier relationship if both of you would take time to do this to each other.

Go out on a sensual and romantic holiday

It requires your time to do some preparation for you to have that sensual holiday with your partner. It does not actually need a week or two. Your sensual holiday can happen in one night or even during the weekends only. The important thing about having a sensual holiday is that you will get out from the typical routines that you do on a daily basis and away from hustle and bustle of the city life.

Preparing for a romantic and sensual holiday is very easy. Some of the best ideas would include preparing breakfast in bed, using yohimbe or ginseng as your herbal aphrodisiac, giving your partner a very sensual massage, having a spontaneous sex in places that you have had sex before, incorporating sex toys, or trying on a new position. You know your partner best. Make sure that you prepare things that they always wanted to experience to make it more satisfying.

If you don’t want to surprise your partner, invite him/her for a sensual holiday few days before your planned date. This would not only create anticipation but it would also help your partner to prepare him/herself at the same time. It does not have to be expensive or too luxurious. As long as both of you would enjoy it, then it’s all worth the preparation. After your night or weekend getaway, take time to talk about what happened. Ask her if she was pleased and what are the things that he/she wants if in case it didn’t worked well. Who knows, you might end up having a surprise as well or a sensual holiday prepared by your partner eventually.

Giving your partner a massage

There is no better way to be sensual than to give your partner a massage. Both men and women think that a sensual massage is like making love, less the intercourse. This is a sexual contact that many still underestimates. Erotic massage is a way to give your partner a time to relax and get aroused at the same time. This also helps both of you to communicate in all aspects.

Stimulating all his/her senses

The most powerful aphrodisiacs would require the use of the person’s sense of taste, sound, and smell. Of course you could always rely on your eyes to give you that arousal. Still don’t have any idea? Below are some of the things that you can do to stimulate each and every senses and to make love without penetration.

Take advantage of the aroma

Scented candles, scented oils that can be used for massaging, perfumed soaps and nice-smelling fragrant, room perfumes, and lighting joss sticks are just some of the things that you can do to stimulate your partner’s sense of smell. But never do all of these at the same time or it will give out stench instead of a nice aroma. Also, only put a moderate amount of perfume unless you want to end up smelling like a prostitute.

Put on some sound effects

This is more effective if you would blindfold your partner so he will not have any clue what would happen next. But if they are not comfortable with this idea, you can simply sigh, groan, moan, or do anything that would tell your partner how aroused you are. Music can also help you build that sexual tension between the two of you.

Knowing how they taste like

No, you don’t have to be a cannibal and eat your partner literally. You can just lick his/her body all over so you will know their taste. Lick the mouth, the face, lick them while they sweat and even have a taste of the substance they secret from their genitals.